Yes! So true. Especially the bit about liking to shower, and put babies down when we can. Ironically when my high needs kiddo was three I had another kid. Who I assumed would be identical. How wrong I was! From hospital on he nursed, I layed him down WITHOUT having to lay next to him and he slept for 2-3 hours independently. I do parent him differently. Sometimes I put him down awake but drowsy and he fusses for 2 minutes and goes to slept. And I wear him less. And he’s walking sooner cause he allowed actual on the floor tummy time. Kids, they have personalities of their own, go figure….

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